Sex in marriage is an important issue; believe me it can make or mar a union. It isn’t far from being the root cause of some silent wars that go on in many homes.
“A woman who is not sexually could become aggressive and cold,” stated a colleague; this is because her pent up emotions could turn into aggression and, of course, it becomes a misplaced aggression without her knowing.
Aside from this, every man would like to increase his sexual performance to impress his partner no matter how long they’ve been together or been married. Every man would want his lover to be proud of him and desire to be intimate with him again.
Also, no woman would desire a man who cannot perform well or satisfy her in bed. Believe me, majority of men wonder what their partners think of their sexual performance. Lack of size or over size or low libido could destroy what could and should be a successful love life. This is why some men worry about their libido.
Libido is derived from the Latin word; li: bi: do: which means, desire, lust or sexual desires. A lot of things could affect a man’s ability to perform well sexually; these include, age, diet, medication, drugs, erectile dysfunction among others. Funny enough, spousal relationships can also affect a man’s libido.
It is interesting to know that as men and women get older, they would have ingested a lot of toxins from the unhealthy food, drinks and other unhealthy habits, these affect the ability to generate testosterone and deliver; the hormone becomes severely affected.
A younger person does not need an aphrodisiac, because the hormonal system operates properly, but as you age and lifestyle among other things catche up, the libido could be negatively altered.
The question is as a man would you use sex boosters? Why do men use it? Are they healthy?
Some people are of the opinion that a man would use medicine or drugs to enhance his libido when he finds or has a new catch/ woman he wants to impress. An average man wants to leave a long lasting impression on the woman he took to bed, especially when the woman is way younger. Every man wants to be seen as being up to the task.
Some school of thought is of the opinion that libido boosters aren’t necessary and it’s not proper. Libido boosters are employed by men who keep multiple partners, because it is a fact that as you grow older for certain reasons your libido and sex drive decreases, this is not uncommon with women too. So if you have just one partner who you grew up with through the ages, both of you would understand the dynamics and there won’t be a reason to worry or a reason to impress your partner.
It is also important to know that if there’s a reason for any man to use libido boosters, he should contact and get it from the right channel because the market is flooded by a lot of fake drugs and medications. Dosage and use should also be put in consideration, an overdose or misuse could lead to severe situations.
A friend once gave us a gist of a course mate in the university who bought and used a libido booster sold in Sabo market all because of a bet he had with his friends that he could not satisfy any lady sexually and that’s why his girlfriends do not last.
After taking the said drug and he was ready to do the did, the lady either by ommission or commission failed to show up. The unfortunate guy couldn’t show his prowess, he eventually landed at the University College Hospital, Ibadan. Yes! Issues like these could lead to severe consequences; that is why if there’s a need for boosters, it should have a medical backing and be properly used.
Taking medications to enhance sexual performance is a two-way thing, if you have a medical problem or you are on certain medications that could affect you in that area, then the doctor will recommend that you take such medications.
Some men suffer from erectile dysfunction, they need medication to correct this. Some take it for the fun of it and to belong or to impress their sexual partners. It won’t come as a surprise that some young men too take sex boosters, this is where the danger lies as it could lead to certain complications and circumstances later on in life.
For those who sincerely need medications to boost their libido, please make sure you seek help in the appropriate quaters and use well; avoid misuse or abuse. The danger of libido boosters lies with indiscriminate use and blatant abuse.
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